Welcome Note 2015-Life is what you make it:-)

Life is what you make it, it is indeed a beautiful ride

New Year is round the corner , We all tend to think and rewind the year we just lived and leaving behind.Regretting ,cherishing things we have done and  have loads of expectation, hopes , wishes for the coming year.

Welcoming the New Year with the most  positive ,practical and genuine realization via my below post :-) 

“Life is not easy” A Saying we all must have heard n no of times from elders. Have we analyzed how much it is true? We all have come across more such people who have too many regrets from life, for every little failure. Be it not being able to have a dream life to even not reaching on time on a friends wedding or to a casual get together of friends.We have long list of excuses and list of circumstances and people to be blamed for  why we were not able to do it. That’s what we are "Human Beings". Unfortunately our elders have sown those “life is not Easy” seeds in our mind right from our childhood… rest of the work is done by this weird society as we grow up.

But have you come across somebody who is positive in his thoughts,mind and heart….. People who say “Thank god I have this. I am luckier than people who can even think about it?”  , Or someone who has less in life , deprived of many basic things of life, may be a handicap, a blind, an orphan and loads of people who experienced worst in their life but  still smiles and  living cheerfully.There are loads of pains around the world but did you notice the difference?? The difference of thought process, the difference of feeling. The difference between cherishing the positives always and  keep cribbing the negatives.

The former is being tried and tested by most successful people; the latter is just spoiling life of millions. Choice is yours, What you want to make out of your life ?

15 easy tips to be implemented in life to cross the above difference and live a Blessed Life –which was and is never so difficult for anyone in particular.

1.    Try to be surrounded by Right and Positive People.

2.      Be honest with yourself.

3.      Jot down positive things about your self.

4.      Display your inner most dreams somewhere.

5.      Try to meet new people and know them.

6.      Start helping and being nice to strangers

7.      Start writing your emotions once in a while.

8.      Don’t hesitate to appreciate people who deserve it

9.      Stay humble instead of being rude or neutral.

10.  Focus on right and positive things in your life.

11.  Be thankful to god for things you have better then thousand others in this world

12.  Once in a month think and analyze what efforts you have made to reach closer to your goal of life.

13.  Trust people, have faith be hopeful.

14.  Express yourself as and when you can and time is right.

15.  Forgive others and yourself.

Simple Reminder for all of us: Life is too short to wake up with regrets, So love the people who treat you right, forget the one who don't, Believe everything happened has happened for a reason. If you get a chance take it don't think much and if life has taken you as a chance , let it trust me! like it is said instead of saying "why me? say try me" Stop blaming life because Nobody said life will be easy , they just promised , it would be more likely to be worth it:-)

One liner from me: “Life is like a flower don’t try to pluck it for your instant happiness instead water it everyday”

Wishing you all a very Happy , Prosperous and joyful new year with the most positive spirit i am in right now!  (Spirit matters the most!)

 Goodluck-Stay blessed-J :-)

Joy -An Episode Of Love

JOY- AN EPISODE OF LOVE

(Title credits to Rutu -my colleague)

30^th Oct evening when I saw “joy” first time. He was fragile, delicate fearful and weak. I took him in my arms and didn't want to leave him forever. He smelled me all over and after a while was absolutely comfortable.

He was meant to meet me. Yes I strongly believe so.Joy (baby Labrador dog) who made me learn many things with just a weeks stay with me.

Joy's episode started when I got to know that joy was actually a birthday present to someone and they couldn't keep it in their house because of the dog aversion by the rest of the family members. Since I have been a great dog lover I was called to take up joys responsibility but alas the scene at my in laws place was even worst. I missed my mum’s home so much and called them up in the tragic situation, my mother was really excited and quickly decided to adopt joy, but she lived in a different city. Major problem of transporting little joy safely to a different city but till then what?

I still couldn’t resist and went to pick joy from there and made a temporary arrangement to keep him at one of my colleagues place for a couple of days (Many thanks to her and her family for supporting me with whatever and however they could) We shifted joy the same night to her place with a plan of taking him to mumys place in my car on the weekend.

The next day was worst, joys health deteriorated, he had bad upset stomach and stopped eating anything , he went weak to weakest. My colleague’s family was skeptical to keep him even for a day more. I rushed with my office mates to veterinary  doctor. i roamed around holding him in my hands, i brought him to my office during hours, sat at vet clinic for 2 hours:-(. I ended up in a situation where I was left alone with tiny joy in my arms, and we both homeless. Joy became my sole responsibility to hand it over to its real masters( my moms place)

We (Abhishek and me) requested  for one last time to keep him with us just for couple of days but the shelter for poor joy was denied. we pre-ponded our plan and finally decided to leave the next morning with joy by car. The night became heavy on me as to where I should go with joy??

But it is truly said “A friend in need is a friend indeed”. One of my friend accepted my request and gave shelter to me and joy for a night. Abhishek was right beside me experiencing all the things I was undergoing,  he was in fact pleasantly surprised to see me so genuinely worried for  a small little puppy. I think he thought I was right and supported me in every step I was taking (Lucky me ;-)) I finally slept outside my home that night which is considered as a taboo for a married female in our culture. There were many things said , told , cribbed  about but somehow nothing mattered to me more then joy and his health, I had a strong feeling I was not doing anything wrong and i was somewhere sure my god is with me on this.

The next day I was ready to be picked up by abhishek and started out road trip with joy towards Udaipur. The on road journey with him was exciting and full of unexpected situations. I  got down at one place holding joy in my one hand to free him for a while and ended up falling into a muddy land because of disillusionment of it being a bareen land.i was all wrapped up in black mud till my waist... but somehow i could save joy lol... i yelled and abhishek pulled me out of the muddy place with lot of effort.. We were confused to laugh , cry  or be sad:-} It took me half an hour to clean the mud around my body.

The another place i got down with joy again had something in store... joy was all happy to feel free in open after continuous 2 hours journey in a closed car.i left him in a open garden of a resort on highway keeping a watch on his safety from bigger local dogs. it shocked me when joy kept going inside a leafy bush and started sniffing a huge dog sleeping there, the moment i caught him doing this i rushed and picked him up! the dog got up and started barking furiously. i again breathed , that i saved him. Later we got to know that he was the most dangerous dog of the area.. oppps!!

With so many different sweet /sour experiences little joy was also discovering both of us as we were also giving him his daily medical dose, food, getting down with him for his releases and all on the way and he gradually became comfortable in our company.The most pleasant surprise for me was watching abhishek being equally worried about joy and acting so sensitively towards him. We didn't talk it out but occasionally we were looking in each others eyes and experiencing same feeling as of handling a little baby, we were enjoying this feeling of being temporary parents of joy.

Finally after a 5 hours journey we reached Udaipur (It took longer because of joy) I was finally relieved to get him a permanent home, caring people, proper care , food and endless love.

I stayed back for couple of days to make joy comfortable with his new family and make them understand his routine and medical care, he was still ill. Joy started recognizing my voice and smell very well, and would respond to my voice and presence like a baby to its mother. He used to run with his small delicate paws to catch me, played with me and  cuddle me endlessly. Little joy would go restless if he didn’t see me for while and as soon as he used to see me, I could see the abundance love in his cute eyes. I never felt so much wanted, he made me feel special.

A week with joy flew like seconds, the hardest day came when I had to leave him and return to my home, my work.

Like a baby my eyes were filling up with tears again and again with even the thought of leaving him. i bid  goodbye to my family this time I was not sad for leaving them but was sad to leave joy behind.

I gave my mother thousand instruction before sitting in the car to take care of him. It’s impossible to explain the feeling I experienced, a heavy heart and eyes,i  kissed joy endlessly.

We drove off, tears rolling down my eyes, thinking the lessons this little creature taught me .I experienced motherhood, value of kindness, faced criticism, became strong, felt proud and content, experienced a different closeness with abhishek, discovered his amazing quality, his unshakable support, realized the priorities in life and to stand by them if you believe you are right and many more things…I got a call from my mother stating that joy was searching me , he was disappointed  to feel my absence at home , he was habituated of me, the active joy suddenly felt lonely and depressed. I never felt so special. On the way back to ahmedabad , we (Me and abhishek) both were silent but still talking on the same line inside our minds and heart.

“A dog has no use for fancy cars, big homes, or designer clothes. A water log stick will do just fine. A dog doesn't care if you’re rich or poor, clever or dull, smart or dumb. Give him your heart and he'll give you his. How many people can you say that about? How many people can make you feel rare and pure and special? How many people can make you feel extraordinary?” (Something from Movie “Marley and me” which was so true and I was literally exriencing that.)

Thank you Joy! Love -J

The Diwali Magic

Diwali Magic 

It suddenly feels boring, dull, stuck and still. We all are back to our customary lives post Diwali and i know most of us are experiencing any one of these emotions i have just mentioned .Yes??

Yes, finally its over... Yes  Diwali 2014 is over. :-(

During the pre Diwali days this time I keenly observed that this unknown surprising and never ending Festive excitement and joy is there all around me every damn year, its the same, in fact increasing but never has declined in all these years.

Diwali is my favorite Indian Festival. I remember the preparation of this big day used to get rolling 20 days in advance at my home. I easily memorize my mother and elder sister starting the Diwali dusting of whole house room wise room. All old junk items were suddenly out. Being the youngest in the family I was not for much of help to them so my favorite job was to discover those old toys, old clothes, and interesting antique things. Every year I used to argue with mum to keep them for few more years instead of throwing. I literally used to argue with her to not discard any of my old toys and deny to share my old clothing’s with anyone else which she religiously used to share with orphanage home every year.

Playing on the soap filled slippery floors… ,listening to scolding of elders to not play in slippery places as I would get hurt :-) Enjoying with my own set of crackers 10 days before diwali with my friends and still keep asking dad to bring lots more on diwali day. Keep waiting for the new dresses mother would bring to be worn during laxmi Pooja on diwali day and day after when people would visit our place. I loved flaunting it on the big day getting ready by 7 pm sharp and getting excited within to burn crackers with friends and cousins and then roam around to see lights across the city and lots more as childhood descriptions are endless and words are never enough to draw it.

It's the "Festival of Lights" today,

It's again the day of Diwali,

It's time to dress up folks, 

It's time to adorn the thali,

Its time to burn cracker and light up diyas,

Its time to flaunt the new me,

Its time to run ,giggle, smile and laugh

Its time to bow down to goddess laxmi

Its time to take blessings of elders,

Its time to light up our life, 

Its time to wish and hope  the best, 

Its time for a New year again.

Wish you a Happy Diwali and New Year :-)

(A half remembered poem i had written during my Diwali break of 5th standard, please excuse the bad rhyming:-))

That was my detailed definition /thoughts about Diwali when I was a kid. I really don’t know how much it is close to the thoughts of today’s kids but one thing is for sure whether elder or younger this festival brings smiles and excitement in every body.

Being married now like every other female my definition of Diwali celebration is changed to decorating home to look at its best on the Diwali day,  buying loads of decorative things, making different Rangolis, deciding on various outfits for different days ,taking loads of selfies with friends and families (don't smirk, i know we all love doing that..:-
) LOL) , posting pictures to share with friends about our celebrations, making home made nashta sweets, different kind of diyas, lanterens and much more my list of shopping and imaginations would never end.

While making these visits to market this time i was surprised to notice the same magical excitement over years and years is still the same on people’s faces and hearts. The smiles, giggles, and hopeful faces. The shops well decorated days before Diwali, the rangoli and diya wallas standing till late night with hundred of colors and designs, variety of Diyas. Shopping mall flooded with offers. The roads are full of traffic jams due to crowd every where out to shop clothes, decorative, furniture’s, jewelry, home appliances, nashtas, variety of mukhwaas, sweets and much more. The environment is just crazy outside. And it doesn't last for a day or 2. This madness begins 15-20 days prior to Diwali.  Every country I guess share such madness once in a year and in India Diwali is the biggest festival like Christmas Madness begins in western countries from December.

So close your eyes for a moment and relive the few days just passed by, am sure you all with agree that yes all of us experienced that electric, positive, joyful festival feeling around us and we are definitely missing it now. 
 
I still cherish all that described above and strongly believe that festivals are times when things around you are different from usual. Festivals unite people. People smile in front of you, they wish, they greet; they forget all their worries and resentments. There are dinner parties, office celebrations, exchange of gifts .There are exchanges of good positive wishes all across, the environment is swamped with positivity. Yes I experienced it and loved watching smiling faces, twinkling eyes of wives, mothers, kids, sisters, fathers while buying joy for their families just because it was Diwali and beginning of Indian (Hindu) New Year - the magic of Indian Festivals.
 

 I just wish that such positivity keeps floating all around us forever in our lives.

Wishing you all a very Happy , Joyful and  Prosperous New Year!

 May your life light up and get hugged by positivity and divine light.

 May all our wishes come true this year and hoping the same every year.

Happy Diwali and a Prosperous New Year 

 Stay Blessed- Goodluck- J

I make mistakes

You mess up things…you clean them. But always remember, the experience of cleanliness after the cleaning is always soothing- Self

Feeling like I have left, forgotten, missed out on something … I missed something very auspicious and my heart is burning…. I could have opted to stay back … to spend some more time … could have changed this’s happening today… could have been a bit more practical then emotional. Could have decided something else then this, could have said something else. Yeh aise bhi to hosakta tha. Main aisa kar deti toh acha hota.. mujhe wahan jana he nahin chahye tha… I could have stayed quiet… may be quieter. Could have reacted better? Could have said this? Err…. Sounds similar?

Yes, we all touch those loosely  hanging thought strings many a times after something is done, said, happened , over. We are left restless by our own thoughts. The more you don’t want to think about them , the more it teases you with its flashes in your mind.

The fact is nothing happens perfect. If it perfect for you it might not be perfect for someone else. These are all the mistakes we are tend to make or god makes us do to learn,to train ourselves. To make us strong. 

However, badly we dismiss our elders advises… There are times when we have to taste the medicine which we always hated to have and we feel like Yuck!! So damn true???? Yes, they made mistakes… they taught us, we became better.. We make mistakes we teach our next generation and they become better.

But the point is each one of us is suppose to make those mistakes in our lives… That’s gods training. Depends on who deserves what kind of training to face what’s coming next in his or her life or what’s your life disease is like .It’s a simple understanding.

Then why to remorse, regret crib about what’s happened. They occur for a reason. We make mistakes, wrong choices not just one but two, Three may be even more and a series of them finally helps us reach to a conclusion which eases our lives for ever.

I thought and thought about it and after continuous Regressions’, crying mourning, feeling sorry for myself eventually a piece on my left side of body (my heart)calmly concluded  that what I am today is because of all those stupid things I did, experienced in my past and this will continue forever making me a better person with time and indeed  each one of us because we are humans.

"We are Humans , We make Mistakes, they make us learn and we become better.

We make mistake ,

We are not perfect

We try , We rise

We stumble , We fall

We hurt, We rise again

We try again

We learn

We grow

Which means we are alive

Which means we are living

which means they are meant to be made by us 

which simply means

"We are Humans , We make Mistakes, they make us learn and we become better.

"He who makes mistake is a fool for a minute or for sometime but one who does not , remains a fool forever and can be called Wise Fool"  In interest of all by Jaya Pathak Stay Blessed!

Human Desires

Switched on the t.v. , tried reading a book, tried going out to shop, tried household, nothing interested me not even our hero WATS up lol . I was totally restless.

Was just trying to reconcile myself with lot of efforts. Efforts to be busy, efforts to get involved in things , efforts to forget few realities as if they never exists, effort to say all is well ( thanks to movie - 3 idiots, it does help many a times but not every time) 

Chill guys its not that my world has thrashed, or i am badly broken, or that something irreparable has happened to me, or that i am very down and helpless NO.....it’s just something in my life which is extremely important is being delayed, delayed not by me but by the Almighty god. Now you know when he is in charge you go to just sit back and take his orders. Here i was waiting for his orders and he doesn't seem to be in mood to give them to me.

There are few waits in our lives which make us drained out, twitchy, we start either hoping too much or loose hope at all, we crib, we mourn, we just can’t wait to experience it.  Be it to get through a competitive exam by trying for n no of times, waiting for a Yes in love, waiting to get married (I m sure this category will interest many of my readers and they would smile inside .lol), waiting to experience parent hood, waiting for a long time disease to cure, waiting to have your own home, waiting to get promotion, waiting for a dream holiday overseas and waiting to ……..?????? The list is endless… Trust me the feeling is just unbearable and agonizing, after all we are “Homosapiens” the most impatient species.

Each one of us has gone through this situation and will keep on going through many such situations in future.

Human desires are eternal….and for Sure their chase make us vulnerable. 

Society - The negative Catalyst 

The ugly fact is that more then us the discriminatory and hypocrite society makes us more curious, agitated and guilty for what we have not been able to acquire in our life. Be it getting married, having a baby, being successful in career, being unsuccessful in relationship, behaving in certain situations and lots more… they have their own set society parameters/norms and if incase if you are  not able to meet them, boy! You are a focus of their tittle-tattle. They can suffocate you.

Why can’t we have our own targets/desires according to our mental strength and capabilities and why can’t we be just fine on not achieving them? Why are we so much drawn affected to met those stupid parameters and hurt ourselves mentally like a dupe?? Why we have to prove to the society that what we are normal people? Why are we so much in hurry to prove them wrong and only then take a comforted breath? Why can’t we sit back and be relaxed if something in our lives is meant to get delayed or can even never happen? Does that mean the end of the road? the end of a happy  life?

Our own desires instead of motivating us to achieve them becomes a compulsion to be achieved in limited time period eventually pulling us towards despair, sadness and

repeated breakdowns.

Let it be just your own desire with only your right on it to fulfill when, how, where?

If you achieve it- excellent!  Good for you but if you cant, its okie ,note that you still have loads of things which might be longing desires of others around you . Feel lucky!

Think over it!

“Always remember there is nothing wrong with you, in fact there is a lot wrong with the world you live in So Chase your desires freely and not being in compulsion”

Stay Blessed - Goodluck -J

The Timeless Bond

"Bhaiya tu mujhe kya dega iss baar rakhi pe?"

"This time get me a silver rakhi, the one which is in fashion" 

Iss baar to main tujhe kuch nai dunga mere paas paise nahi hai bhai.

"Post man aaya, didi ki rakhi ayi hogi " (excitement)

"Mumy meri rakhi mili, 5 din pehle post ki thi?

"Rakhi kharidne jaana hai... 

Special rakhi for  bhai , this one for bhabhi, bhua, didi and cousins.

yeh wali rakhi mein nahin bandhwaunga, achi wali bandh na!

These word are lost and their essence too, we hardly hear them around us . Is int it? Where is the excitement gone? Where is the involvement gone? where is the innocence in this emotion gone?

Even the Rakhi Thread has changed tremendously in its appearance and outlook in present times. Besides being an expression of love, Rakhi today, is a piece of art and a style statement for the fashion conscious generation. The market is flooded with varieties of rakhis . Gold, Diamond rakhi, expensive stones rakhi, natural rakhi, astronomical rakhi, spiritual power rakhi , cartoon charecter rakhi and the list is endless. 

For years sisters , mothers, chachis, cousins used to hunt market to pick up best rakhi for their brothers much ahead of the festival. Now the new age is booming with n no. of websites providing even the e - rakhis with attractive offers online..(Techno world :-))

Does that change the basic purest form of human emotion  - love , care , affection and faith between a bother and a sister? Does the motive of tying the rakhi thread changed in all these years? Since ages it is simply to pray, to wish for the prosperity ,well being and happiness of the brother .To respect and cherish the beautiful vulnerable emotion you share with your brother. Brother who is your friend, your guide, your buddy, your father like figure, who vows to protect his sister always , to stand by her in thick and thin, to be her savoir all through the life.

The elder brother, the younger brother, the same age brother...whatever kind but this species is just wonderful.(All sisters will agree)

I remember making a hand made card for my brother along with rakhi a week before the festival.I remember all the ladies mothers, sisters, wives  dressed up traditional were seen going or returning from their brothers or mothers houses, newly married females  feeling emotionally excited waiting for their brother to take them to mother place,  Making of different kind of sweets at home, Bhuas coming to home,exchange of gifts,comparing gifts of last year to this year, smiles gigiles , laughters, teasing, togetherness and lots more.

 I miss , i miss all that badly.Lives are busy now ,  just like me there will be many working females who would not be able to go out of station to visit their  mothers places.  I wont be able to be with my brother this year :-( however this year i thought of wishing him in the same old way i used to when i was a kid.

I posted him a hand made card with a letter with few lines dedicated to exclusively for him .Just sharing them with you all here.

Here's this letter is to my brother 
I remember every day I have lived with you
No matter what you have said, what I have said in anger , in rage to each other
Here's what I'd like to say 

I remember you carrying me when I was a kid,

I remember the ride with you on bicycle to my school
I remember the hand made cards i used to post you and you have still treasured them (i know) 

I remember you feeding me when I was infant

I remember you showing your possessiveness when I was out

I remember your harsh words just to protect me from wrong

I remember you’re those n no of weird teasing tactics

I remember you displaying love stealthily

I remember (and will always) your special and extra affection towards me

I can never measure the kind of bond i share with you, the protection i feel in your company

the confidence,  i have when you are around and i know for sure that no one can replace you in my life.

And thousands such things

So what if I am far away from you and where ever life will take me and you in future,

I am there with you every year  on this auspicious day to show you that,

I will always love you 
Be with you till the end
When no one else is around
I will be your friend

I will take care of you

I love my brother unconditionally
and I always will 
I'm proud to be your sister

No matter if the world says it otherwise 
that's how I feel 
And someday even when we're far away 
And the miles keep us apart 
I'm going to whisper 
I love my brother and make sure my voice reaches your ears
Yes it will  and you'll know it in your heart .

Wishing you all good luck as always for my brothers life ahead on this Rakshabandhan

Happy Rakhshabandhan Bhaiya!

You are loved eternally.

Yours guddu :-) 

So what if now i have grown up to a mature married female , Here is  a hand made card i am sending , the way i used to post you when i was in school , just to remind you again -the old small guddu - Miss you :-)

There's no other love like the love for a brother,

There's no other love like the love from a Sister,

Good Luck , Stay Blessed-J

That Nostalgic moment with “Music” – The undefined magic

Source: Google images

Just living and expressing one of those days when there is actually nothing special, its a just a normal  day.You are carrying on with your normal general daily routine and unexpectedly  a song on radio or on your playlist in your earphone when you are driving or in office, or on a long drive instantly makes you blush, feel wanted, beautiful, loved. You feel vulnerable and nostalgic remembering few flashes from your past and few from recent past.

Longing for something which cant be even expressed well by you.

May be your first love, first crush, first proposal, your mothers love, your fathers care, few wonderful friends, thousands of such memories / flashes come alive in front of your eyes. A movie which you are watching alone in your heart and mind in presence of other people around you busy in their normal life.

Listening to that tune suddenly gives butterflies in your stomach. You feel positive and life suddenly appears beautiful.

Unknowingly tapping your fingers on the steering, table, lap, (or anywhere, depends where you are experiencing this beautiful feeling) ,a constant deep peep out side from the car or your hands moving out of the window making a wave shape, imagining something.Though no one around you ever can imagine or feel what you are going through internally but they can easily sense that you are wandering in a different world.:-)

Your expressions are mysterious and its funny for others who watch or notice you . You unknowingly smile in front of every person making an eye contact with you lol, the reason is, just because you don’t want any one to disturb you and you silently want to say: “I am all fine, you please carry on, don’t talk to me right now” . It doesn't matter to you as you are in different world and you deny out rightly to come out of that world unless there is something extremely important (it specifically include your bosses call at the same very moment! ewww!! …Yes don’t laugh it happened with me and need not to explain how irritating it is, that expression on your face say it all)

You fall in love with the song and start feeling a bit filmy.. (c’mon don't laugh…be honest...) You want to spread your hands like shahrukh khan does in most of his movies (even though he must not be doing this notanki in his real life:-)) you want to feel the air outside, your eyes travel to the farthest point of the sight.

You miss someone’s presence and feel like leaving message, confronting, or calling that person with whom you are getting emotionally involved only in your head, as the rest of the world outside is unaware of it. lol

You may be listen to it repeatedly many a times and that becomes your humming song of the day.(i am sure you agree, i can perceive the grin on your face)

                It not the tune but the words in the music which melts your most conscious emotions

Yes we all have experienced this many a times.The magic of “music” on human mind.  Music heals you mentally, makes you live, positive and happy. It does miraculous changes in your thought process.

It was just one of my days today and I just simply expressed it with the familiar and obvious happenings and emotions linked with it.  It makes me nostalgic and I am sure it make nostalgic to thousand others. I hope they all read and connect with this adorable, striking and positive fact.

Once again fallen in love with this undefined magic.

Music releases us from the tyranny (domination) of conscious thought. It provides wings to mind, flight to imagination and life to everything.

Sir Thomas beecham and Plato

So Lets fly then, at least a few minutes flight every day:-) 

Good luck! Stay Blessed -J