Monday, 6 October 2014

I make mistakes

You mess up things…you clean them. But always remember, the experience of cleanliness after the cleaning is always soothing- Self

Feeling like I have left, forgotten, missed out on something … I missed something very auspicious and my heart is burning…. I could have opted to stay back … to spend some more time … could have changed this’s happening today… could have been a bit more practical then emotional. Could have decided something else then this, could have said something else. Yeh aise bhi to hosakta tha. Main aisa kar deti toh acha hota.. mujhe wahan jana he nahin chahye tha… I could have stayed quiet… may be quieter. Could have reacted better? Could have said this? Err…. Sounds similar?

Yes, we all touch those loosely  hanging thought strings many a times after something is done, said, happened , over. We are left restless by our own thoughts. The more you don’t want to think about them , the more it teases you with its flashes in your mind.
The fact is nothing happens perfect. If it perfect for you it might not be perfect for someone else. These are all the mistakes we are tend to make or god makes us do to learn,to train ourselves. To make us strong. 

However, badly we dismiss our elders advises… There are times when we have to taste the medicine which we always hated to have and we feel like Yuck!! So damn true???? Yes, they made mistakes… they taught us, we became better.. We make mistakes we teach our next generation and they become better.

But the point is each one of us is suppose to make those mistakes in our lives… That’s gods training. Depends on who deserves what kind of training to face what’s coming next in his or her life or what’s your life disease is like .It’s a simple understanding.

Then why to remorse, regret crib about what’s happened. They occur for a reason. We make mistakes, wrong choices not just one but two, Three may be even more and a series of them finally helps us reach to a conclusion which eases our lives for ever.

I thought and thought about it and after continuous Regressions’, crying mourning, feeling sorry for myself eventually a piece on my left side of body (my heart)calmly concluded  that what I am today is because of all those stupid things I did, experienced in my past and this will continue forever making me a better person with time and indeed  each one of us because we are humans.

"We are Humans , We make Mistakes, they make us learn and we become better.
We make mistake ,
We are not perfect
We try , We rise
We stumble , We fall
We hurt, We rise again
We try again
We learn
We grow
Which means we are alive
Which means we are living
which means they are meant to be made by us 
which simply means
"We are Humans , We make Mistakes, they make us learn and we become better.




"He who makes mistake is a fool for a minute or for sometime but one who does not , remains a fool forever and can be called Wise Fool" 

In interest of all by Jaya Pathak

Stay Blessed!



1 comment:

Unknown said...

Well written !!
I believe that Mistakes are unexpected learning experiences. It is so conceited and timid to be ashamed of one's own mistakes. Of course they are mistakes. Just Go on to the next. I feel if we do make mistakes then we are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing our self, changing our self, changing our world around. We’re doing things we've never done before, and more importantly, doing something. I believe in making new mistakes. Make glorious, amazing mistakes. Make mistakes nobody’s ever made before. Don’t freeze, don’t stop, don’t worry that it isn't good enough, or it isn't perfect, whatever it is: art, or love, or work or family or life. Whatever it is you’re scared of doing, do it.