Being Married -Sight of your partner:-)

Let there be n no. of stories, theories, philosophies on relationship between couples, the way it is portrayed, the most advocated diminishing spark between 2 people, agreed and experienced by almost every couple. The granted attitude , the ignorance, the lack of caring, sensitivity the endless nagging, the no “Chemistry thought” , the screams, the loose temper, the big big ego clash, and finally the craving of being Single all through our lives and much more it’s the endless list. (Sounds familiar isn’t? lol)  

Agreed, yes there are many which are truer than true but above all I strongly believe however mad you become at your partner and take harsh decisions of not talking and keeping quiet and getting frustrated then you need to analyze it calmly someday that can you stop nagging at things forever? Can your stop caring? Can you stop missing him/her; can you be strong enough to live alone? , Can you imagine your frustrations remaining only to you and not ever shared? Can you imagine living life without any restrictions, no reminders and no instructions? No imperfections? Can you imagine even one year without a fight between both of you? the list goes is endless. It seems easy and light but trust me it will not be and rather it will be frustrating for you after a while. That spark is needed in any way but its mandatory it keep both of you busy craving and burning for each other.

For years we stay together, live together, share together, learn together, fall together, and cry together, the effect we have on each other. A part of him will always be in you, and a part of yours will always be in him.We become each others habit.

Analyze your relationship and you will discover that this is the most beautiful and fulfilling relationship in the world above all.

Having a life partner is the most blissful feeling. So the crux is however imperfect you both are or vice versa or the whole world including you mock about this relationship at the end of the day if you feel that “There is nothing quite as inexplicably comforting as the sight of your life partner” and if it is so (it is so in my case) trust me you are in a perfect relationship. Value it, cherish it and treasure it for late years of your life.

Beautiful Song ...

I wanna grow old with you  I wanna die lying in your arms  I wanna be looking in your eyes  I wanna be there for you  sharing everything you do I wanna grow old with you  I wanna die lying in your arms....

 So just go back home and feel proud to have someone to back upon, look at him / her with genuine love and say them thanks for being there with you all through your life.

After all "Marriage is what all you have been through with somebody and make that as a memory

worth cherishing"

Stay Blessed- Love -J